Valentine’s Day

I love Valentine’s Day:-)!! Before I found My Love, I loved Valentine’s Day!! I have always given or sent Valentine’s to friends and family. I love to do that. Over the years I have changed to giving out Valentine’s to mostly family, our God-Children, my parents, brother, sister, daughter and of course My Sweetheart. I also like to do something fun or different in my classroom on Valentine’s and it almost always involves chocolate! Today we did a lesson I named That’s S’ More! Like Amore! But S’More! Ha! I played the song by Dean Martin and sang it was funny, the number of eye rolls was hilarious! Anyway, I think Valentine’s is for everyone and I wish more people embraced the idea of using the day to just remind everyone in our sphere that we love them and value them.

My own love does Valentine’s well. He is amazing. He is a hopeless romantic and I am the happy recipient of all the sweet sweet wonderful things he has done over the years. It’s like a fairytale I live in on Valentine’s Day. I am not kidding. Today he sent me the song Storybook Love. He bought me flowers two days ago. He took me to lunch today and I know he has a fun and special evening planned for me and our daughter, who he also totally spoils. I could ask for anything from him on this day and he’d probably do it or get it if it was within reason. Not to mention all the sweet poems, love letters, stories he’s written for me over the years.

I am so incredibly blessed that God put Jason in my life. He makes me feel loved like no other person on Earth. I imagine the love I feel from my husband is close to the love God has for me. That totally amazes me because I can’t imagine being loved by anyone more than I am loved by Jason and yet I am.

I am definitely not bragging or trying to but one day if my daughter reads this blog I want her to know how incredibly awesome her Dad was/is and how grateful I felt and feel everyday for the gift that he is to us. God has been so good to me and I as I sit here,  typing this while waiting for my daughter to finish her piano lesson, I am overwhelmed by that Love.

Isn’t that what Valentine’s Day should be about? Knowing we are loved and whether that is the love we feel from a lover or a friend, parent, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, grandparent, it’s all really just a reflection of the one perfect love waiting to hold us all, if we open our hearts.

I encourage you to share Love today with the people around you, through you they might have just enough of a glimpse, a taste of God’s perfect love to want to to take the time to know Him.

Today for Valentine’s Day…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Here are the  flowers My Love bough. I told you, he does Valentine’s well!

SNOW!

I live in a valley. The most beautiful valley in the state, if you ask me. Unfortunately, you can’t always tell that I live in a valley. My valley is about an hour away from the front gate of Yosemite National Park as well as an hour away from the front gate of Sequoia National Park, well, maybe I should say my town not my valley. In any event, the mountains are flush with snow right now and the air is clean and so the views when I drive over to my school are breathtakingly beautiful! I mean I could stare at the wonder of the mountains and the snow for hours. The foothills are green and the mountains are snow capped, its the valley of my youth. I was so very thankful to God today for my views, almost 360, amazing!

My valley feeds the world. It is a beautiful place to live, even in the summer when it’s hot. I love it in every season but my favorite is probably right now just before spring and fall, whenever that happens because sometimes it doesn’t happen until December. We live hours away from a spectacular coast line and like I wrote an hour away from beautiful foothills, lakes and world class National Parks.

I love running here. It’s spectacularly beautiful most days. I love my drives to work. I love driving past the open green fields and the orchards. Much of the land has been owned by family farmers, sometimes for generations. It’s getting harder for them though, which concerns me. My town is a relatively conservative leaning town in a crazy liberal state. I enjoy my town. I know people at my church and in my community. I feel like I belong. I care about the people here, the kids here. Some days I am so happy as I drive through my valley I think my heart will burst, like today.

Today….for the spectacularly beautiful mountains that are surrounding my valley, they remind me of God’s ever lasting and ever surrounding love…I Give Thanks!

KOR

 

 

Sewing…

Today my girl and I have a sewing lesson, so I’m thankful for that. She has a bit of a cold and so I’m thankful I haven’t caught it as I am running a half-marathon on Sunday. We are supposed to make blankets. She picked an animal fabric and if you know her then you know she totally loves animals. I picked a bright fabric with Swans on it. It just looked happy to me. The forecast for Sunday’s half has rain in it. Luckily we have run in the rain once and also a heavy drizzle so as long as its light I think we’ll be ok.

Christmas was really nice. New Years was fun. I made it to midnight and wasn’t tired at all. I love ringing in the New Year with my family.

There has been lots of sunshine, hopefully the rain doesn’t bring back the fog. I don’t care for fog.

Sunday is Epiphany and our run is called the Dia De Reyes run. We run the course all the time. It’s basically our training course for our half in Monterey, so it will be familiar and believe it or not Fresno is really pretty and green right now. The foothills have greened up and the Eaton Trail is a nice trail to run on in the early morning. We are having people over in the afternoon to celebrate our run. We will have tacos and Rosca de Reyes or Three Kings Cake. There is a baby Jesus baked into the caked and the person who gets the Baby Jesus is supposed to host a meal on February 2nd for family. February 2nd marks the end of the Christmas season for Catholics.

So today for sewing lessons, health, running, sunshine and good times with family and friends…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Only Jesus…

I love this song by a group called Casting Crowns. I’ve watched them at least twice in concert. Steven Curtis Chapman, an all time favorite, helped get them started.

This song reminds me of the first catechism question I ever learned. Why are we here? To love God with our whole heart, mind and soul.

I forget this often, very often. I was just teaching my Camp Fire girls that when we go out and do things for people, it’s to bring Jesus to them. We are His hands and feet.

Today is Christmas Eve and so today I’m going to focus on being Jesus to others, instead of being upset that my husbands mother went to Disney World(long story, lots of history, too much to explain now) for the holidays or worrying about which traditions will stay or change this year.

In the end its all about Jesus. He gave his life so I could live, who does that? You just don’t see it as much as it’s needed. We have opportunities everyday to give our life for others, to make choices that help others and I don’t make the right choice nearly as much as I should. Merry Christmas Eve!

Today, for Jesus, I Give Thanks!

Here’s the song…

I’m way behind…

Well between finals week at school and Laina’s last week of school this week I’ve fallen way behind in holidailies and my blog in general.

I do have some things to be thankful for today though…

For Laina’s Christmas play, cookies, phone calls from old friends and God’s Everlasting Love…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Did I mention I’m also thankful for cinnamon rolls?? Especially home made by me cinnamon rolls?? LOL!

Smile at two random strangers…

Well, I tried to smile at people I didn’t know, but I think I may have just scared them.  Between fighting off “something” and needing to grocery shop, mail all those Christmas cards I wrote up and needing to grade another stack of finals tonight, my smile may have looked a little more like a smile from this guy:

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which, frankly, may have concerned some people…It was fun to note, however, how many strangers a person can come across in a day, especially when out and about.  I made an effort to smile at the lady at the post office who held the door open for me.  I smiled at the old lady who took a really really long time in the meat section of the market buying a pork shoulder, as I wanted one too, I had no choice.  I smiled at the people in the game store I went to today to shop for Christmas gifts for my husband and there are always students I encounter on a daily basis, who I don’t know, but who I always try to say Hi to and smile at.  

Hmm…many opportunities to brighten someones day with a simple upturn of the lips.  It’s somehow reassuring to have someone smile at you.  It makes you feel like everything, somehow, will be ok.  I think that’s why it’s even better when its a stranger.

So all in all I enjoyed this challenge and hope I didn’t scare anyone with my smile…

Today for getting my finals graded, for broccoli, its a super food and I’m hopeful it will lead to me getting rid of this “something”, for guitar lessons, my recital is tomorrow, and for Smiles…I Give Thanks!

KOR

I’ll leave you with this song by “the” legend…

Tape some change to a vending machine…

I didn’t do this…I didn’t happen upon any vending machines today. Our car broke down and left my husband stranded at home with no way to get to work because I had the other car at school. I just finished grading a giant pile of finals. I may be catching “something”, it’s been a day.

Today…for grading my finals, getting our car fixed so tomorrow isn’t nuts…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Here’s my giant stack of papers…it actually only took two hours, not too bad…

Donate unwanted used books to charity…

I did this about three weeks ago when we did a major consolidation and room clean up so sadly I don’t have any more to donate. We donated several boxes of books. I love books! I have many books on my bookshelf that I haven’t even read, but I hope one day I will. Maybe, when I finally decide that this will never be reality I will donate those as well. There are just too many books in the world and at the same time not enough. I say this because I have two books I’m working on off and on and in reality are no where near completion. I have two friends who have recently released their own novels and I admire their persistence and willingness to share stories they love with others.

The first is a story called Always Darkest by Jessica and Keith Flaherty. It’s a cool story about a demon and the daughter of an arch-angel falling in love. I really enjoy well thought out characters and character development in a story and you find that here. It was a good read and the next one should be released soon, I think. Here’s a link to buy the book, which I think is totally worth it: https://www.amazon.com/Darkest-Arbitratus-Trilogy-Jessica-Flaherty/dp/1681604469 and here’s a link to her blog http://demonsrunlit.com.

The second is a story called The Caves of Corihor by JD Shiner. Admittedly I haven’t read much past the first chapter. The premise is the Ca drought has been brought about by terrorist somehow. Like I said I haven’t read it but I find it an interesting idea. I need to read this one soon because part II comes out this summer! Here’s a Amazon link to that book but remember I haven’t finished this one so I’m not sure…https://www.amazon.com/Caves-Corihor-J-Shiner-ebook/dp/B01LHWEAGE/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1544494894&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=the+caves+of+corihor

I have two stories of my own that I’ve been working on for awhile. One is about a runner trying to make a come back and the other is about a dragon named Olivia. Sadly, I haven’t had any time to write on them lately and I’m thinking I really need to lay out a plot line. I tend to write free flow, whatever pops into my head and I’m finding that’s just not a very efficient way to actually finish anything.

My husband has a series he’s working on with an idea I find intriguing. As it’s his series I won’t divulge too much but I find the idea really fascinating and he is a great writer, despite what he thinks.

I LOVE books! I enjoy writing as well. In another life I might have majored in English or at least devoted more time to writing but so far my path hasn’t quite gone that route. I think I could spend more time writing if I was more intentional. It seems one life lesson I have learned this year is intentionality and it just occurred to me that may well end up being my One Word for 2019.

Living life with intention. We are working on a family mission statement because we believe our family needs to be intentional about how we live the One earthly life we have.

Today for a nice lunch with Jason, unsweetened black iced tea from Starbucks, dried figs (I love them), music! (Listening to all the recital pieces at my daughter’s piano school, beautiful!), and last but not least for books…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Hide a nice note for someone to find…

Well I didn’t do this one but I think I kept the intended spirit. I wrote Christmas cards!!

I think last year was the first year, in awhile , that we didn’t send out a family picture Christmas card. I bought cards and wrote in them and mailed them out. We did do a family picture New Years Card for certain friends of ours that are in our adoption group but not Christmas.

About two years ago I began to feel like I was highjacking Jesus’s holiday. I spent so much time looking for the “right” pictures, etc…I felt like it was taking away the reason we were celebrating. I remember I was talking to Jason about all the little ways the reasons for Christmas had been taken and changed and I remember saying, “We’ve even taken Jesus off our Christmas cards and replaced Him with us and news about us.” We both looked at each other and were like, hmmm and ya. In our view, not good. We are Christians so it’s probably a good idea to keep Jesus at the center and so last year and this year I took our picture off our cards and put Him back. My hand hurts after I sign them all and I try to write a short little note inside. For family who are nearby I invite them over for Christmas Eve and New Years Eve. I try to write something nice in each card, even if it’s just a wish for a good holiday season and a happy new year! But you know what, for whatever reason last year and this year I found it was a lot less stressful and the cards are done and ready to put!

Anyway, as someone I know would say, it’s not a salvation issue, putting ourselves on cards instead of the one we celebrate, neither is doing a catch up letter like many people we know do, it’s just our issue. We want to remember why we celebrate. We will do New Years Cards again for our adoption friends and a few others who I want to touch bases with but who don’t necessarily celebrate Christmas but for now I think I’m going to keep doing a more traditional Christmas card.

Today, for finishing our Christmas cards, for Sunday breakfast with family, Gingerbread house decorating, watching Arthur Christmas (love that movie), getting to see our neighbor who is recovering from open heart surgery, broken vertebrae in his back from a fall, the loss of his wife, dog and cat (pray for him if you are a praying person, he looks strong but that’s a lot of loss for anyone) and for getting our house lights up…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Here’s a picture of a funny church sign down the street from us. My husband, a Star Wars sign thought was hilarious. Another of little God-Son working on his Gingerbread House. he’s very determined. He also thought the “glue” was tasty!

Be kind to yourself…

Does getting new socks count? I got some comfy cozy new socks because I really like the brand. I didn’t really need socks so I guess I’m going to count this.

Today we did the annual Jingle Bell Run in our town. Fresno, Ca has a lane that is pretty popular, it’s called Christmas Tree Lane. It’s in an older neighborhood with million dollar homes and really old, tall, beautiful pine trees. They drape lights on the trees and practically every house on the lane gets decked out. Local high schools have provide murals that are displayed and home owners put up their own decorations as well. You can find all of Santa’s reindeer along the lane as well. The run is a 5K and today I felt really good. Before the run my husband and I ran six miles in our neighborhood so we ran a total of 9 miles today and I felt good! It’s so nice to be running without hurting again. I just have to remind myself not to get too excited and push too hard or I might find myself back where I was, miserable and in pain.

I love to run and since the half we always run was cancelled this year because of wild fire smoke, we have signed up for a different half on January 6th. It’s on a route we train on almost every weekend so I think it will be okay. I’m feeling strong, which also keeps me sticking to eating healthy. Well today we did go to a rib place and had at least one side that wasn’t the greatest but for the most part we stuck to the plan.

Well, for a fun run today with our daughter, for a fun horse drawn carriage ride in the afternoon, for love, life, and family…I Give Thanks!

KOR

Here’s a picture of a house on the lane from this morning and a couple of the lane in the evening :-)!!